The Good Years

OK, OK, all years are good years (if you really want them to be). 

Just about everybody has plans for retirement and the golden years. But by the time retirement comes around nobody knows for sure what mental and physical condition they'll be in. Some people golf, play tennis, and compete in Iron-man competitions year after year (show-offs). Some have physical problems and may need a walker, cane, or even a wheel chair. Strokes and other conditions can affect speech and memory. Others have diseases like

Parkinson's, diabetes, MS, or cancer. You can't know for sure how these diseases will progress--and reality can change rapidly. None of these conditions will necessarily determine whether or not you're positive and happy.

When my wife and I retired she already had type II diabetes and I, of course, had prostate cancer. We had very little idea of what might actually happen in the future. Both of us have benefited from advances in medical science but not so much from the advances in medical costs. So far we have been able to do everything we hoped to do in retirement (as long as we work around the doctor appointments). We're told that our increasing aches and pains, slower movements, and memory lapses are normal for our age. Who defines 'normal?'

I am reluctant to share this, but it seems the busier we are the better we feel. So much for laying around and being lazy (all the time). It appears all this activity really is good for me--or so says my wife (who is the world champion maker of to-do lists). I encourage you to be as active and busy as you can. These really are the good years--I think.

axman