Whether you’re healthy, relatively healthy, or ravaged with disease you will be going through a physical and probably mental decline if you live long enough. Whoopee! Getting your strokes by being faster, smarter, or more successful than somebody else doesn’t last forever. New parameters are needed – like being happy with still being alive.
Sometimes I sit around with my geriatric buddies and we inevitably get to talking about the good-old-days. Ironically, I used to make fun of my parents, aunts, and uncles when they did the same thing. Now, good-old-days means when I could do the things I did as well as I could do them – at least in my mind. Maybe it’s a matter of, “The older I get the better I was.”
There is some comfort in reminiscing about the past – it takes your mind off the trials and tribulations you’re dealing with in the present.
I’m not advocating living in the past. Carpe Diem! I enjoy living in the present – most of the time. Do what you can for as long as you can. Of course it would be nice to be young and strong and fast and have more hair - again.
Now that there are so many things I can no longer do I need to focus more on what I still can do. There must be something - besides writing a blog, that is. As long as I have loving (more or less) friends, kids, grandkids, and a tolerant wife, life is still pretty good. Different - but good. Painful - but good. Slower - but good.
axman
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